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Helloooo. Today is touching a part of the series: Insecurities, because I find it fairly hard to write a post on the topic, Insecurities, alone, I decided to break it up into bits and pieces.

You may be bigger or smaller than the other but that's okay. Not a single one of us are the same, we're all different in our own unique ways and body size is part of the thing that makes us unique. I definitely have skinny friends and some chubbier ones but I love them all no matter what because size has never mattered to me and as long as you're happy and healthy, what's wrong?

Personally, I know I have asked my friends why they are so skinny and now that I think of it, was it pleasant to their ears to hear what I just asked? Was insisting to hold their arms because they're smaller than me right? Reflecting on all those, I feel guilty but I shouldn't regret on what I've done because I thought it was okay. But it's not.

If you haven't really spent so much time with that person, it isn't right to ask them such questions because what if they have an eating disorder? What if they are on a medication that makes them look like how they are now? Before acting, we should definitely think of such questions and maybe say it in a much more polite way or save it for later but if you're worried and you care so much, you can ask. But also please know that asking why he/she is skinny and they have an eating disorder, it will definitely do no good and won't ever ring a bell in their head to make them try to get rid of it. They will just feel more insecure so treat everyone like how you treat just an averaged-sized person because we are all one race and different. Also, don't go around calling the bigger ones fat because maybe when they were young they didn't have enough food and they are now being grateful and finishing any food their mum thought they'd like.

Moral of story is that it's okay if you're smaller or bigger, just as long as you're happy and healthy there's nothing wrong because you're living life the way you want with yourself. And one day, when you're all old, you'll regret not living life to the fullest just because this boy called you too fat to be one of his friend or you need meat in you, so just forget the hateful and ignorant comments and just take in the compliments because either way everyone loves compliments and positivity!

You are just what God intended.

If you are in any way offended by this, I'm truly sorry and I definitely didn't mean to offend any of you.

Thank you for reading, I hope this helped in anyway :) I love you all.